Domination and submission can be a fun and arousing part of sex play, even when on the phone. Some callers are either one way or the other, dominant or submissive, and they do not switch sides ever. Some however are switches, and can spend months in one head space and then go the opposite way. It’s always interesting to find clients that are this way, since you never know which way they are going to swing until they tell you what they are in the mood for that particular time.

One caller had me chain my ankle to the stair railings and email him pictures of my foot in chains to show him I was his property, even when not on the calls. Another had me draw a swastika on my forehead and chest to show how devoted to the cause I was to be a Nazi whore. I am submissive, so I did indeed follow the callers wishes to do this to myself and send them pics as proof. They very much enjoyed me playing along and feeding into their fantasy of dominating me.

To be their collared whore, their beck and call girl, their property, means a lot to some. Then they swing the other direction and they are the ones being forced into doing things, like putting on ladies lingerie, high heels, lipstick and wigs, inserting things up their asses, they can love it when they are told to do something and you are the one dominating them for a change. It can be a lot of fun to have them do these things for a change and they can get right into it, with props and toys and outfits. It’s amazing to hear all the elaborate plans they go to when they call up for some phone sex and a hot and sometimes creative masturbation session!